Have You Tried This Sex Trend to Last Longer?

Edging your way to an explosive weekend, to get the best out of the journey, not the destination.
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There’s a lot of nonsense on how to increase your stamina. Pornstars have been using the tried and true technique of edging to make their performance 100x longer and stronger, for years. Couples have been incorporating the craft for mind-blowing sex.

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Edging, also known as “orgasm control,” “peaking,” and the “start and stop” technique, is the cornerstone for tantric sex. Edging is the act of not letting yourself orgasm, but getting right to the verge of orgasm, slowing down, and starting things up again. Repeat.

While edging is often talked about in the context of masturbation, it has its spotlight during sex. Unlike a lot of BDSM games, it doesn’t involve inflicting pain, so edging is a great place to explore, and enjoy, power play in the bedroom. While holding off an orgasm sounds like torture, it explores your body's full orgasmic potential, making the experience 100% pleasurable and 100% worth it. 

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Edging-With-Benefits

Edging not only makes you last longer, but it makes your orgasms much more intense.

As the pressure builds, it makes for a much more satisfying release and gratifying orgasm.

This handy technique is important because the average female usually needs at least 20 minutes to cum, but it has its benefits for your pleasure too. It helps with premature ejaculation; can encourage blood flow to the penis, helping men with erectile dysfunction; makes your erections harder; and can help enlarge your penis, as edging increases blood flow and causes the tissues in the penis shaft to stretch, which can facilitate length and girth growth.

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For Both Men & Women

While edging is a mainstay of men’s sex tips, Women can enjoy edging too. Research from the educational orgasm app, OMGYes, says edging is one of the most popular ways for a woman to masturbate.

How long do you edge for? Many pull back once or twice, but work themselves up to building more times they can last before letting go. Some keep edging over and over again without ever letting themselves cum. Many practice through solo sessions to become more aware and in-tune with their own thresholds of how close they can get and when they need to stop. (No blue balls, because science has proven that to be psychosomatic.)

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How to Improve Your Edging

You should be edging no matter how long you last in bed.

To properly edge, you have to last 20-30 minutes. If you can’t last that long masturbating, you should still try to extend the amount of time you edge, even if you don’t last 10 minutes.

If you’re really struggling to last longer, take five minute breaks to allow your arousal to drop, change technique/ grip, or kegel.

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Incorporate Edging in the Bedroom

A recommended edging “exercise routine” happens three times a week. With a partner, you’ll end up wanting to play around with edging every night. For the solo sessions though, if you’re only edging 3 times a week, but jerking off 6 times a week, your penis will still be used to short sessions.

Incoroprating edging into your sex life is the perfect “game” to play, where the edgee ends up begging for their release. Reward them for their “tortured” patience. They’ll return the favor. 

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